Many people have been taught to be kind to others since childhood. There are two types of kind people, who are repaid the kindness and who are forgotten your kindness and returned evil for good. Why some people are respected for their kindness, and others are exploited their good intentions? Not to be exploited in business and workplace, what kind of action and mindset are required?
To be kind to others
Some religion may also be taught, but the idea of being kind to others originally comes from Buddhism and Confucianism. Your action will return to yourself someday both positively and negatively. Your kindness sometimes is accepted, but sometimes is not. Good intentions are basically service spirits without expecting the return. Regardless of the amount of kindness, it is the other person’s matter how to understand and receive it, how it affects their life.
Taking care of others is not easy. If you support someone, you must be independent mentally, physically, and financially. Tax you paid to the government are used to maintain healthy society, such as road/bridge/dam, public health , school/library, health insurance to receive medical care by low costs, annual pension for elderly people. Even if you don’t take good intentions to someone directly, your earned money will be the cornerstone in society.
However, apart from such self-reliance and independence, being kind to others save our life as well. Inspirational message heals their heart, tasty soup keeps them warm, positive feedback motivate yourself. Your kindness has great impact on someone’s tomorrow. Your existence is someone’s hope. Helping someone bring your life joy.
Why are some people exploited their good intentions?
There are good people and bad people in the world. In fact, there are many people who take advantage of kind people. If you are kind to a wrong person, your good intentions will be exploited. Therefore, it’s important to understand who you should be kind to. Train the discerning eyes.
Feature of people who are exploited
Cheerful, honest, and obedient people have tendency to be used because they are easy to be controlled. They follow someone without doubt and disobedience. Kind people likewise. They tend to be kind to anyone. Their good intentions are exploited by enemy. Enemy take advantage of your guilty feeling. They understand that you cannot treat with them badly and use your beautiful heart for their ambition and success.
Spirit of treating with everyone equally is beautiful, but those type of people is also exploited. Noble and integrity people follow their justice and philosophy. They accomplish any missions. The vulgar behaviour is against their virtue. However, their stubbornness is used negatively. Human being is basically weak creature. Most people either take one side or other side. People who don’t take either of them side are attacked by both sides, occasionally. Because we all don’t want to take any side, and want to be independent, honestly. However, most people cannot do it so. It turns on someone’s jealousy.
Who are true friends?
Friends in business are slightly different from private ones. Business friends are built on both interests. It’s important to identify who is trustworthy for you. However, their skills and connections which you don’t have certainly have positive impact on your carrier development and business opportunities. Most people judge others based on status, money, and fame. Even if you have great knowledge and experiences, people are not aware of your wonderful parts. Therefore, you should be right position to show yourself properly. It is said that the number of friends determines the success of your life. Even if you are not interested in your counterpart, they may bring another potential partner to you. At the end, you’ll meet high quality partners.
It’s commonly known that true friends are F=Fight for you, R=Respect you, I=involve, E=Encourage you, N=Need you, D=Deserve you, Stand by you. There may not be many friends who meet all of these requirements, but they are treasures to walk through life with. However, many of the people you call friends are insecure beings who fluctuate depending on the environment and the conditions. They close to you when you succeed, but they away from you when you fail. So, we need to observe their action and the attitude, especially when you face difficulty.
Conclusion
Your kindness is sometimes used because you are kind to a wrong person. It is important to have discerning eyes to see who you should be kind to. Kind people dedicate to help others, heal their heart, and improve the society. They should be admired. Just protect yourself from people who take advantage of the kindness for their own ambition in business and workplace. Kind and honest people have high potential to have impact on business world. Many failures and negative experiences create a great person who is kind, strong and respected by lots of people. Don’t be afraid and get any experiences to succeed in your life.
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